Capricorn woman’s sheer audacity is what captivated you. Her actions are laced with a bold power that is so calm and natural you are in awe. A Capricorn woman can just simply be present and everyone around her stands at attention. Whether it is professional or personal, she commands the room by just breathing. People want to know her and what makes her tick. I give you props for seeing past her commonly perceived “ice queen” veneer. She does have a passion that burns but its exertion is cool and controlled. Recognizing this within her is one step closer to proving your worth and securing her attentions.
Controlled is a very apt word to describe Capricorn woman. In control of her emotions, her actions and her course in life, her sign is the embodiment of “calm, cool and collected”. She needs that control because she is a walking contradiction. Deep underneath that cool veneer is a warm and tender woman. It simmers just beneath her surface but feels no need to show itself unless there is a damn good reason to. High standards are something she has in spades so it will take more than cutesy creativity to see beneath that exterior.
To be completely honest, you might lose faith before you get anywhere with her. You may go through a period of time where you feel you have exhausted all your resources. Her sign is notorious for having walls as high as the Sears Tower and fortified like Ft. Knox. It is likely you may not even get in the front door as her friend the first time around. This woman has all the patience in the world and isn’t afraid to use it. She doesn’t need a partner but eventually she will want one. The secret to making her want you is to simply be the warmth that melts her ice.
For the strong woman of the zodiac, often times she secretly appreciates when her partner is the one that takes a certain amount of control. The Capricorn woman is one of them. There is no rushing seduction and there is no margin for error. Slow and steady wins you this race for her heart. The best relationships with a Capricorn are those that stem from a natural progression. Befriend her and keep personal tidbits to a minimum. Early conversations should be light-hearted and general. You let her in as she lets you in and before you know it there are quiet dinners for two in the privacy of her own home.
Privacy is another important notion to a Capricorn. Over exuberant public displays of affection, everyone and their mother knowing all of your business and gossips have no place in her life. She values intimacy and likes to keep her personal life tucked neatly behind closed doors. No one but you two need to know what is going on. Over time, as your comfort levels grow, you can initiate a subtle public display of affection. Just let her take it as far as she is comfortable with.
So you have taken the time and asserted yourself in her life. While being a constant you have gone along with her program and actively given as much as you received. By now she should be comfortable with you and feel a level of security that she can let you underneath her armor. Start paying attention when she does little things for you almost like a personal assistant. This is her way of showing interest and wanting to move forward.
Capricorns are always calculating and planning. Once she starts doing little things for you she is probably beginning to think of ways to seduce you. By now you have seen her some of her warmth and you want more. Meet her halfway with a little bit of confidence. Coy yet sincere flirting, in private, will get you where you want to go. Be creative. Being able to smile at something only the two of you would know racks up plenty of brownie points in your favor.
Just because she may try to seduce you or respond to your advances does not mean you’re off the hook. Of course be yourself~ better have been this entire time~ but understand at any time before you get official status confirmation, you can be tossed aside. You will know when she trusts in you and feels secure. While it may seem as if the heavens open up and angels start to sing, you will feel the shift in your relationship. When you get a chance to look back, you will see its natural progression and feel a rightful sense of achievement.
One of the many benefits to being with a Capricorn woman is her greatest secret. The phase, “a lady in the streets but a freak between the sheets,” definitely applies to her. All her seriousness and calm exterior gets left at the bedroom door. When that door closes, she all about play time with you. Capricorns are so sexual that the thought alone could arouse her. She is very mischievous and adventurous in bed. She adores the feeling and emotions that come with passionate and intimate sex. You will get to benefit from her adoration.
There IS something delicious in the power of “I know something you don’t know.” The Capricorn woman harnesses that power every day. She doesn’t feel the need to advertise her worth; she understands she is a gift. She understands that she is worth all the things she tries so hard to obtain and so much more. She likes having her lives separate. Her personal relationships are her reward for the hard work she puts into her professional life, something just for her. She is just as cautious and devoted in her personal relationships as she is her professional, making sure that each are the best they can be. Just don’t give up on her. She may take her time but once she gets there the rewards are priceless.