He might be the guy who just landed the big promotion at your office. He might be the guy who just opened up a restaurant in town. Either way, you notice he is going places and all that ambition and energy has made you hungry for him. Your Capricorn male has drive and determination to get where he needs to go and succeed once he gets there. Can you keep up with him?
Capricorn males are patient. He measures success in logical increments that showcase his accomplishments. He is not afraid to work and is not afraid to take his time and make sure it is right. He is a practical man who is down to earth, a no fuss, no muss kind of guy. He is all business and rather direct. He wants what he wants and there is nothing to deter him from getting it, even you. If your ambitions do not match his, he will leave you behind.
All that seriousness can make seducing him difficult. You do indeed have your work cut out for you. You need to approach him like he approaches life, confident, calculating and determined. Capricorns are very private men; he separates and sometimes compartmentalizes his life. Business is business and home is home. No need for grand gestures and public displays of affection with him. Discrete and casual is the name of his game. Discretion helps a Capricorn feel comfortable and protected. He cares deeply about his public image and desperately wants to protect his feelings. Trust is a big issue with Capricorn man; if he shares his feelings with you then you are on your way.
Present your emotionally and psychologically stable side. You will not get your foot in the door unless you show him you are on even ground with him. When you flirt, make sure it is something only the two of you hear. Gaining your Capricorn’s interest behind closed doors is a way to insure he remains comfortable and open to your persuasions. When it is time to ask him out, pull him aside and with firm confidence ask. Don’t be surprised if he seems taken aback, he is a work-aholic and often times singularly focused. He probably didn’t see you coming.
Once he has accepted your offer the date should be somewhere that is subtle and private yet slightly above your station. Slightly. You want him to see you have goals and ambitions. You want better for yourself and your future. Treat the date as somewhat of a job interview. What can you bring to the table, what can you two accomplish together. Do not over run the conversations with such direction but subtle statements that show you two are on the same page will be more than enough. Capricorn males respond better to knowing looks rather than outward public displays. Touch him causally from time to time if you would like but know that you will get further with smiling eyes.
He wants a mate who is in just as much control as he is. He wants someone with class and poise. If you cannot hold your liquor or control your temper, a Capricorn male may not be the one for you. None the less his conservative nature and sense of tradition may leave you a bit antsy. Don’t be surprised when you get a simple kiss good night on your first date or even your fifth one. Do not be surprised that it may take you a while to actually get him into your bed. When it comes to his feelings, he feels he has all the time in the world to build trust and adoration. Meanwhile you will have wonderfully romantic dates with a man who took the time to make it right.
Though it might take a while to get there, sex with a Capricorn is not what you think it will be. The seriousness and ambition takes a different turn between the sheets. Privately he is an incurable romantic and an adventurous lover. He is playful in bed and is determined to make sure it is a worthwhile experience. He has his own set of fantasies and won’t be afraid to share them. He might just one day surprise you by wanting you to come by his job for lunch. Though for lunch, he will be hungry for you spread out on his desk in his office. Your cool confident Capricorn man has a few kinks and a new meaning for a “power lunch”.
Remember though, for all the fun in bed and comfort you grow into, he does take his time to fully commit. One day though, your patience will pay off. One day, out of the blue, all their reservations will have simply vanished. Once the reservations are gone and once he is confident in his trust in you, I suggest you hold on tight. All that drive and determination that attracted you to him in his professional life is aimed towards you. It may seem over night but you will wonder what happened to the guy you were dating days before. Do not worry though, better version is the one you get to keep.
Once you get to keep your Capricorn, he is yours. And yes, I did say get to keep. If you retained your discipline and continued to grow together in goals and success then you get him as your prize. He is a forever kind of guy once he finally commits so you will never have to worry. He will be the first one to want to work something out and find a solution to any problem together. Just like with everything else in his life, if you are willing to put forth the effort so is he. Continue to work hard and want to rise above your current lot in life. Continue to show him that you will stand with him as he achieves his dreams and he will do so for you. You both will have a lifetime of dreams to enjoy together.