If you are interested in a Scorpio woman, congratulations, you must have balls of steel. She is THE most explosive sign in the zodiac. Her intensity can really only be matched by the fire signs of the zodiac but even there she gives them a run for their money. She is fierce both emotionally and physically but is not one to toy with at all. You play games and she will win. She will win and leave you in the corner crying for your momma.
Usually I like to give you both the up and down sides of a sign, I think it’s only fair. This particular sign~ this gender, makes me want to tell you to pull up a chair while I make a pair of drinks. She is just like the arachnid that represents her; rub her the wrong way, threaten her or her surroundings and you are dead where you stand. There is no room to maneuver, for a Scorpio woman it either is or it isn’t. Are you ready for her, really ready? Once you enter her arena, you don’t leave unless she tells you to.
She is full of finesse and mystery. Your Scorpio is an enthralling woman with a very strong A-type personality. She is just the right level of challenge and gives you just the right amount of rewards. Scorpio’s are both highly emotional and highly intuitive. This gives her the uncanny ability to sniff out bullshit the second it is thought. Save yourself the time, save yourself the embarrassment and keep it real when you approach your Scorpion queen.
Though she would be very happy in a committed relationship, she won’t give her heart very easily. She may have trust issues; it is likely she has been hurt a time or two. Therefore any potential mate will have to go through a series of trials in order to get to the relationship stage. Just like the Libra before her, conversation and genuine class will get you everywhere. Open a dialogue with her, keep her comfortable and relaxed, you have your foot in the door.
Scorpios have a vast array of interests. Some, she openly shares and others you will have to be around a while before you find out about them. Nothing is too taboo or off limits for her. She is very open to new experiences and would love to pick up a new passion. She loves passion; in fact she is attracted to it. The more passionate you are about something, the more she will admire you. Incorporate your passions in your conversations with her. Let her talk, but do not force subjects, she will reveal, all in due time.
Hopefully you paid complete attention during your initial conversation with her. Planning your date accordingly should be easy then if you had. Does not matter where you take her, just be there with her. She is watching you when you least expect it. Be genuine in your attention and show you want her there with you. Besides giving her your undivided attention, take advantage of her sexual nature and touch her during your conversations. Hold her hand, thumb circles on her wrists or maybe even brush her arm but randomly touching her is surely on the path to seducing her.
Scorpio women are both fire and ice. She expects you to give 100% and is more than capable of matching you tit for tat. By now if you have had a few dates with her you understand what I mean by intensity and passion. You find yourself falling deep for a woman you may barely know but she is so very captivating you don’t care. Once she knows she has you, she is going to want ALL of you. You’ve now engaged a sensual and possessive lover who will want you both body and soul. She will love you with the same intensity she carries herself with. Just hold on tight, she will take care of you.
Sex with a Scorpio woman~ there are really no true words to define it. I can wax poetic with the same words I have used: intensity, passionate and fierce but none quite cover it. You need to experience it. She burns your skin yet cools you, turns you on so hot and quenches your desire She radiates sexuality and has healthy imaginations. She isn’t afraid of experimenting and do not be afraid to share your wild fantasies. You have a BDSM itch or an outdoor kink~ she might have it too. Once she mates with you, you will easily give yourself over and let her keep you.
Remember that drink I offered you earlier… see I have good news and not so good news. The good news is that she is not clingy. She likes her private time and independence. You will never have to worry about her manipulating your time. The not so good news is that if you betray her trust and you might as well kiss your ass goodbye. Scorpios have a vindictive streak that really a wonder to witness. You would admire it if it wasn’t directed at you. Just keep in mind for better or for worse, as long as you stay honest with her, you can never do her wrong.
Though it is really the key to any relationship, open honest communication is the key to keeping yourself out of the path of your Scorpio’s stinger. Maybe you got too ahead of yourself and realize she is in a league not of your own but you can’t get her out of your head. Tell her what you want, whether open relationship or booty call, whatever you want to call it but just tell her. I hate to see you decimated by her wrath because you got cold feet. In all honesty, do not let this or her intimidate you. She is the woman who will awake your senses, take you to new heights, make you feel more alive and loved than you ever have. The thin line you walk is worth it to have all her and all the rewards in the end.