So there is a wonderful Gemini man that has caught your eye?Are you patient enough to deal with him? He is two halves of the same coin, hating something one minute and finding something to love about it the next. Gemini man is naturally curious and always seeks new information or new adventures. He is divergent and can change his mind at any second and every second. To deal with this you will need to be flexible and might want to consider keeping your opinions to yourself.
The key element to understanding a Gemini man is letting the air sign in him be free. Allow him to be as open and free as he needs. If you don’t he will run far and run fast if you try to keep him tied down. He is rather independent and needs to be able to go his own way. If you are strong enough then let him do what he wants to do, when he wants to do it. All you need to do is make sure he knows that you are there for him at all times… that you can be home.
Gemini man is intelligent, flexible and adaptable. If you want to attract one, you will need to embody these same traits. Ask him out, suggest an activity date. He is energetic and loves to be on the go. With a Gemini man, you need to mentally stimulate him as well as keep up with him physically. Great date ideas might involve hiking or biking and if you are bold, maybe a game of basketball. He loves to party. Maybe you know of an upcoming party that will be lively and upbeat? Keep your game fresh and new and you’ll have your Gemini man hooked.
You ask him out, he says yes… what do you wear? It seems that most Gemini are attracted to yellow. The color yellow is mostly associated with mental processes and intelligence. Yellow, like many bright colors are appealing because he can easily respond to you using his mind first. If yellow isn’t your color, then any vibrant color will do. Just do not dress too flamboyantly or over the top. The stimulating appeal of your clothing will invite him to look further into you and notice all your details. There is one thing you always want a Gemini male to do~ act, react then interact.
Gemini man will fall in love with his head first. The one on top of his shoulders now~ the other one follows later. With that said, you will need to appeal to his mind with interesting conversations. If you know something that he doesn’t about a subject he cares about, then you will instantly captivate him. He loves to talk about everything including himself and his opinions. You need to listen and have another topic ready for when the conversation dries up. Avoid lulls in conversation! Gemini man loves to have fun and loves to laugh. Keep conversations light and goofy but keep a lot of varying topics of conversation at hand. Remember: stimulate his mind~ the one above his shoulders.
Once you wrangle the beast that is his fleeting attention, you can move forward in your seductions. Gemini man loves a flirtatious partner and loves to be the center of attention. You can flatter and flirt then compliment him; you will have him in the palm of your hand. Present yourself with an air of complexity and mystery. Gemini love puzzles and impulsiveness, so the trick is for you to become a puzzle for him. You have layers and depth wrapped up in a sexy package that he needs to piece together and create the picture. Do not mention commitment in your flirtations, keep them in the present situation. Let it be about what can happen when you two go home, not what will happen if you get a ring.
Gemini man does not need a huge emotional connection to have sex, making it fairly easy to get into his bed. He does not need a confirmation of your love and devotion first. What a Gemini man needs and will appreciate is bold and~ let me be frank~ kinky behavior. Feel free to be adventurous! Ride that cowboy in reverse outside on his back porch if you dare or try every position in the Kama Sutra. Tell him how much you love it or how much harder you want it. He loves the dirty talk and the attention. If you ever get stuck, Gemini man is notorious for enjoying oral sex. Then again… aren’t most men? None the less, his free and independent nature flows very well in the bedroom too. Be up for new sexual positions and create plenty of opportunity to explore them.
If you are working him for the long haul, do not ever, and I mean do not ever, ever let him know it. He will run. Fight or flight was probably in part inspired by his nature. Variety and space are the keys in keeping your Gemini man. Often surprise him with a small gift or hidden handwritten notes. Do things together that promote future outings without it seeming as if you are building a relation-ship like taking cooking or language classes, or traveling somewhere neither of you have been. You are satisfying both his sense of curiosity and keeping him entertained all the while keeping you in his loop.
This mission, should you choose to take it, will be a fun one. Gemini man is a lot of work, but you can get so much out of him. He does not stray, unless he is bored. He always seems to know a little bit about everything, so you will always learn something. He likes new things, so you get to see so much that is around you. He is vigorous and stimulating, positive and happy and wants to share it with someone. That someone could be you.